Why Does He Keep Contacting Me If He Doesn’t Want A Relationship?

Messaging has become such a prominent part of our daily lives that it can be easy to place way too much importance on what texts really mean from a guy. Do you want to just let it go and accept he’s not the guy for you? Do you want to try shooting him a friendly text? I would just caution you to not invest too much in the outcome. Don’t strategize ways to win him back over.

Why Does He Keep Texting Me If He Doesn’t Want A Relationship?

The man you are seeing does not appreciate, nor treat you well. From what you wrote, it also sounds like he may be sexually abusive. Pushing a woman to do sexual things when a woman says no; is sexually abusive behavior.

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I didn’t expect him to contact me right away, but around midnight he got online and said he had troubles sleeping. Then the days passed by and I felt like crazy. I decided to send him a message telling ; that it was fun seeing each other and that we have to do it again sometime. No reply… but later that night he got online again and said he had gotten a message from me, but had troubles reading it as the display on his phone has broken down. I told him what I had written about it was fun seeing each other and that we have to do it again…. His reply was; absoloutely, we will solve it…
And I felt it was an odd reply.

A female friend of mine asked a man she knew if all men disliked talking about their jobs, and he replied, only if they have crappy jobs. Often the easiest place to start in terms of questions to ask a guy on a date is what he’s into. Getting him to talk about himself should be easy (we all like to talk about ourselves, both men and women), and hopefully, he’ll reciprocate by asking what you like. Even if he’s just telling stories about wrestling with his brother as kids, you can still glean information about who he is as a man. However, at the end of the day if he doesn’t want to commit that means that no matter how great you think a he is. Or how much he texts you or reaches out you.

Perhaps because for men with a masculine core, it’s more intuitive to move towards a feeling of emptiness. Relationships and emotional closeness can often feel more intuitive to us as women than it does for men. See, men subconsciously know and feel, that relationship and closeness with you doesn’t make him more worthy as a provider. This is why it’s always important for you to stay attuned, “check in” and notice the state of your relationship from time to time. However, usually if you’re his ‘one and only’ woman, you will feel in your gut that he does care. But what matters here is whether you’re his one and only woman or the one of many woman.

But, then again, not a lot of time has passed. You guys are dating, and he just might not be the kind of guy that wants to build all that comfort so fast- so he paces himself. I read this and i see that he put most of the work in with contact (i assume?). Women are aggressive now, and a women who shows more aggressiveness compared to the ones who can sit back and wait, will usually get priority, since online everyone is an option… But not one wants to FEEL like an option, and you avoid this by matching the same attention.

Why did he make am effort before we met, and if he wasn’t Into me then why did he have sex with me? Well my situation is similar, the only difference is that we have been having an affair for 3 years and we are both married. He calls me at work every day and we talk all day long we also see each other when he is available since my job is more flexible than his. He recently started working for a different company, and his normal behavior regarding calls has changed because with this new company he has to be on the phone more often.

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However, that still doesn’t mean you lower your standards to accommodate them. The guy I mentioned above, he wasn’t ready but he wasn’t a bad person. He just had so many things he needed to figure out for himself and I didn’t have the power to speed this up.

Just don’t let him know you’re being cautious. I had a very similar thing with a guy 2 years ago. I wish I had read “why women love bitches” when I was with this guy.

He’s the kind that gets so immersed in work he does nothing else besides that. Even though he could be interested in you do not expect him to answer how to use YourSecretHookup while he’s at work. Or he simply doesn’t like to keep talking back and forth preferring instead to only do so when it’s convenient to him.